[3] Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. [4] Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.
Beloved,
Are you a leader? The way control is exhibited, particularly from a leader to a follower, is subtle, yet profound. How so you ask? A leader’s actions and responses to life’s situations reflect, possibilities for the followers.
What possibilities are you reflecting for those God has entrusted into your care? The way they see you handle certain problems will become their own template for when they face similar challenges later in life. Be intentional about how you engage the force of control. Know what you have control over and what you do not. Where you have it, exercise it! Let others see what true freedom in Christ Jesus looks like by your intentionality.
It makes me so sad when I see individuals doing any and everything and using the Holy Scriptures to justify it.
Another way to look at control is that the bigger a thing is, the messier it gets when it is out of control. So see control as a structure you put in place before you start getting some things done. Never leave what you see to be wrong to remain that way. Control can be direct– as a command, or indirect – as influence. When you begin to control your environment for the better, you begin to qualify and position yourself for a leadership role.
In the face of a messy situation, do what you have control over and take charge in the spirit. Put order and structure to your life and you will find life responding to you like a tamed animal.
I commend you to God and to the word of His grace.
I call you blessed. I call you NATIONS.
