Philemon 1:6 NKJV
that the sharing of your faith may become effective by the acknowledgment of every good thing which is in you in Christ Jesus.
Beloved,
In addition to being convinced about what you want to say and planning your conversation, you need to develop confidence. Confidence will help you talk as if you know what you are saying, and you actually do. However, don’t exhibit reckless confidence. The Bible says that says fools plunge ahead with reckless confidence while the wise are cautious, Proverbs 14:16 NLT. Don’t do things recklessly. It is okay to walk away from some conversations if you know that the other party is setting you up to engage in unproductive arguments. At the same time, some people may be ready to receive the gospel, but they don’t look like it by their outward appearance. So you must depend on the Holy Spirit to grant you the boldness to approach the right person. Good planning and a well-thought-out outline will boost your confidence and help in the conversation.
As you begin to have the discussion, stay with the truth. Like Paul in Acts 26:25, say only what is reasonable and true. Remember, what people are fighting against is the truth, not you. Get your facts right and speak the truth as God has revealed to you. Again, depend on the Holy Spirit. This is because He will move you to do or say certain things which will be the key to opening the heart of your hearer.
Finally beloved, let your lifestyle be in sync with your conviction. Don’t live contrary to what you profess. You are the epistle that men read. This means that in some instances, you may not have the chance to open your mouth to speak convincingly, but your lifestyle will do the preaching for you. There are many confused people out there. Be that person that will help others out of their confusion.
I commend you to God and to the word of His grace.
I call you blessed. I call you NATIONS.
